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Nurturance
through the Moon
By Maria
Vaiano
As we approach Mothers Day, I wanted to dedicate an article
to oneof the most dynamic and powerful meanings of the Moon in the
birth chart motherhood and nurturance.
The Moon in a birth chart is symbolic of many things. It tells us
about our most basic personality and habitual life patterns. Its
our instincts, our memory - where we are most comfortable. It represents
our physical body as well as holding the key to our emotional well
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Arianrhod, The Celtic moon-mother goddess,
called the "silver wheel".
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In a childs chart, the Moon is actually more important than the Sun
sign for the first seven years of life. This is because children are more
connected to their feelings, moods, and instinctual rhythms and havent
yet learned how to incorporate the Sun sign into developing their higher
personality. Children this young are still drawing heavily from their past
life experiences, and the Moon is most indicative of these experiences as
well.
In a mans chart the Moon tells us what he requires emotionally from
a woman. In both sexes it tells us what is required for the individual to
feel nurtured and gives insight into how that individual experienced his
own mother. And for a woman it speaks volumes about the type of mother she
has the potential to be.
What follows is a summary of how an individual will nurture others, as well
as how he most easily feels nurtured and protected. Also included is a description
of how each Moon sign may have perceived his mother. As always, please remember
these summaries are general and may be colored heavily by the aspects in
the individual chart to the Moon as well as other factors in the chart such
as house placement of the Moon. If your Moon, for example, is in Taurus
in the 9th house, you should read for both Taurus as well as Sagittarius
because that is the sign naturally ruling the 9th house. You can get a deeper
picture this way.
Once you learn some basic characteristics of your own Moon sign, or your
childs, my hope is that you will achieve a greater understanding of
your emotional self, along with the emotional self inherent in those you
love and nurture.
The Moon
in Aries
You
are the type of mother who wants her children to achieve great things.
Perhaps not the most patient of mothers, you can always be counted on
for your honesty and your courage. You may not be home baking apple pie
all day, but you are sure to be involved and active in your childrens
lives. Others may call you spirited, and rightly so you are never
afraid of a challenge or to tread over new territory. You may see red
when it comes to protecting and fighting for your children and never hesitate
to be the warrior in their life.
You feel most nurtured when cultivating your strong, independent spirit.
Being in a position of leadership is where you feel safe.
You probably perceived your mother as a strong, dominant figure in your
life perhaps sometimes pushy but definitely vibrant!

The Moon in Taurus
You
are the eternal earth mother, and meeting your childs
needs is your top priority. Patient and strong willed enough to follow
through when it comes to the discipline involved in raising those little
ones, your children will grow to see you as their rock. You are so steady
in your nurturance, how can they resist leaning on you for support?
Despite being one of the most natural mothers in the zodiac, there is
the chance you may not know how or when to let your children go. Possessive
mothering may be your shadow.
You feel most nurtured when surrounded by creature comforts. I can see
you now, sitting in your lush backyard on your garden swing, inhaling
the delicate scents of nature after a light spring rain. A chenille blanket
is wrapped around you and you have a box of your favorite chocolates near
you. Now you feel safe.
You perceived your own mother as emotionally strong and devoted. She was
practical, calm, and security conscious.
The Moon in Gemini
You
are the mother who may never be home. Always running around, sometimes
a bit scattered, its important for you to nurture your children
by feeding their minds and giving them access to all sorts of knowledge.
Your mothering strengths lie in your versatility and shrewd manner. Its
natural for you to possess the dualistic ability to go with the
flow, yet at the same time, nothing will get past you!
You may be somewhat jittery as a mom prone to nervous tension.
You nurture yourself when you are talking on the phone with a friend,
pouring over the daily newspaper, a best seller, or gearing up to take
the latest adult education class.
You saw your mother as intelligent, mentally stimulating, but always busy.
The Moon in Cancer
The
Moon is at home in this sign and it has been said that Cancer Moon (or
Sun) makes the best mother in terms of ability to nurture. You are a sensitive
mom, able to intuit your childs every need and emotion and
have the instinct to usually meet these needs as well!
Protective, yet easy going and sociable, you are capable of creating a
nest for your family that is the ultimate home. Your mothering shadow
lies in the fact that you may be too much of a good thing. Yes, there
is such a thing as over-mothering, and you may have perfected
the art.
You feel most nurtured when free to express your ever changing moods,
and when you can lead in nurturing anything whether it be a person,
a project, a career or a pet.
You probably perceived your mother to be the best one in the neighborhood.
The Moon
in Leo
You
are the mother who appears larger than life; generous, warm hearted and
full of pride for your little ones. Although eager to nurture your childs
special talents (and of course your child has many), you should also be
aware of the danger in trying to push your children into the spotlight
in hopes to fulfill any of your own unrealized ambitions.
Nevertheless, you teach your children the value of leadership and respect
as well as a love for the traditions in your family.
You feel most nurtured when youre able to shine when you
capture the attention of a crowd and are recognized for your own many
talents!
You probably saw your mother as extremely creative, and sometimes a real
drama queen. She was also a woman of deep tradition and no
doubt passed them onto you.
The Moon
in Virgo
Youre the type of mother who is always serving and taking care of
others. Perhaps also working outside of the home, you are orderly, efficient,
and attentive to the details necessary to run a smooth household. You
have high standards and expectations for your children and constantly
strive to make them the best they can be.
Because you have perfectionist standards regarding your own mothering
ability, you can sometimes be too hard on yourself. You may also be a
bit hypochondriac concerning your childrens health perhaps
even jumping at the slightest sniffle.
And yet, because you are self-contained, you teach your children the value
of self-sufficiency and because you are so analytical, your children will
learn to appreciate the details in life. And your need to serve can result
in some of the most humble children always willing to lend a helping
hand.
You probably saw your mother as a bit critical and nagging at times. Proper
and conservative, with a strong desire to care for the family, she may
have gone unnoticed as one of the most devoted mothers. It would have
been ok with her; her satisfaction comes from knowing she raised her children
right.
The Moon
in Libra
Libra
Moon mothers are often the family peacemakers. Family harmony is of the
utmost importance to you and those sibling rivalry squabbles between your
children can drive you crazy! You may romanticize motherhood in some way
and over pamper your children as well, but you are charming, calm and
unsurpassed in teaching your children social etiquette.
You feel most nurtured when you are respected for your judgment, acknowledged
for your fairness, and above all listened to!
You experienced your mother as somewhat over pleasing to everyone in her
life to avoid conflict perhaps even a pushover. She was however,
very loving and emotionally vested in her children.
The Moon
in Scorpio
You
are intense! This Moon placement often signifies a deep emotional nature
that is difficult for others to read you simply wont allow
access. As a mother it could translate into you always knowing what is
going on in your childs mind. You may be two steps ahead of them
no one can fool you.
Your children will learn great emotional strength from you and you teach
them the value of inner strength and fortitude. Your shadow may be in
your need to control your children too much and perhaps even manipulate
them emotionally (this may even be unconscious).
You will not feel nurtured until you learn to trust and this is often
a very difficult lesson for Scorpio Moon. You can tell yourself that you
feel safe only when you keep your wall up and dont allow anyone
into your world of deep emotions, but I dont buy it. I really believe
that to experience true nurturance you might have to transcend this safety
net. Perhaps your children will teach you this lesson. And if you
do learn this lesson, it must be learned at your own pace no one
can force you to do anything.
You may have perceived your mother as abandoning you in some way
either physically or emotionally. You may have even felt unwanted as a
child. If you had a positive experience of your mother, she may have still
been somewhat mysterious to you.
The Moon
in Sagittarius
You
are a fun mother no two ways about it! You understand the value
of children playing, yet at the same time have an unsurpassed love of
knowledge for its own sake and youre eager to pass this love onto
your children. An eternal optimist, you teach your children the value
of believing in themselves and having faith in the world as well as a
higher power. You love to travel and may travel often with your little
ones!
You may however, have such a great need for your own freedom, that it
creates difficulty in your mothering especially during those early
years when the little ones are always with you. Yes its easy for
you to let your children go, and encourage them to attain their own independence
bur be aware that this must happen when they are ready for it not
when you are.
You feel most nurtured when allowed to roam about and this is why motherhood
can sometimes be difficult to balance for you. During the times you feel
your freedom is restricted, you can nurture yourself in other ways: perhaps
by learning about a subject matter that helps you answer some of your
deep, philosophical questions about the universe. You also feel nurtured
when acknowledged for your wisdom, so teaching your children anything
will give you great comfort.
You perceived your own mother as adventurous and fun as well as spiritual
and philosophical. She always had questions and she didnt
stop searching until she found the answers.
The Moon
in Capricorn
You
are certainly serious about mothering! Practical and no-nonsense in your
approach, you take your role as an authority figure to a level some other
Moon signs can never attain. You are a hard worker and your children will
grow to look up to, and admire you in many ways.
The shadow here is that you may have little patience for the childish
antics, and sometimes miss out on your childs need for love and
companionship because you are too busy fulfilling your responsibilities
as a mother which are, of course, never-ending.
You may also be prone to depression or pessimistic thinking, perhaps having
even experienced restrictions or limitations in your ability to mother
in some way.
You feel most nurtured when you have clearly defined boundaries, and when
you are recognized for your accomplishments, and when your feelings are
received by others in a practical manner.
You probably experienced your mother as somewhat restricting perhaps
she suffered from depression or had restrictive life experiences during
your upbringing. She was a hard worker and responsible, able to wait for
lifes rewards and certainly not afraid to earn them.
The Moon
in Aquarius
You
are not the typical soccer mom thats for sure! Maybe youre
not weird, but you are unusual in some way. Definitely liberated and not
one to be barefoot and pregnant, you will teach your children
the value of independent thinking, freedom and your children may grow
to see you as more of a friend than the usual, mother type.

Because you are ahead of your time, you open up a world of possibilities
for your children that more traditional moms havent even considered.
Your cool, emotional detachment doesnt mean you cant express
love for your children (although it may be an issue), but it does mean
you inherently value your child as an individual and arent caught
up in children being an extension of yourself. Since smothering is so
detestable to your character, your shadow may lie in recognizing that
children do need to be treated like children from time to time
they arent miniature adults!
You feel most nurtured when you are appreciated and respected for your
intelligence and individuality.
You saw your own mother as a bit strange, or she may have been a genius.
She was certainly fixed in her temperament and whatever she believed in,
she will always believe in.
The Moon
in Pisces
You
are a sensitive mother, absorbing your childs every emotion and
wound. This is the most emotional placement of the moon and while your
compassion for your children is unsurpassed, there is the possibility
that you are over sensitive and take things too personally. You may fall
into the victim or martyr role, depending on the rest of the chart and
your children are either born to be saved by you, or to save you. You
are mystic and often psychically sensitive as well with a rich imagination
so you are usually creating wonderful bedtime stories for your children,
or games of make believe in some fantasy world. The shadow lies in your
ability to actually come out of this world and take on the real responsibilities
of motherhood that are more practical.
You have a tremendous gift of teaching your children to develop their
imagination and spirituality and you feel most nurtured when you are allowed
access to your dream world, and treated as the fragile person you are.
You probably never really saw your own mother very clearly. She, like
you, was either the rescuer of the family, or needed to be rescued in
some way because of mental illness, or an addictive behavior.
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